Communication Within A Relationship

             Never did Jody Starks take the time to laugh or talk with his wife Janie. Never did he caress her or hold her tight within his arms. Never did he let her fully express herself and he only viewed her as a “trophy wife”- using her beauty only for show. His main priority was gaining more wealth and maintaining his position as mayor. Their lack of communication led to the demise of their marriage, but once Jody had passed, Janie was ultimately free from the chains of her cruel husband.

              Tea Cake is introduced as a stranger, a man with great delight and jubilation. He functions as the catalyst that helps drive Janie to an untroubled future. The second they encounter, they engage in a joyful conversation consisting of jokes and laughter. “They both laughed and she handed him two kitchen matches out of a box for that purpose.” (Hurston 95). He was constantly taking her out to do things she’s never done before, like hunting and fishing. He allowed Janie to finally fully express herself. “Seemed as if she had known him all her life.” (Hurston 99). Their ability to maintain strong communication with one another is the reason for their healthy and gleeful relationship.
             
                “A Mad Black Woman’s Diary” closely represents Janie’s situation concerning Jody and Tea Cake. After 18 years of marriage to lawyer Charles, Helen (his wife) is shocked when he announces he's ending their marriage. While Charles prepares for the trial, Helen is courted by Orlando, an affectionate man with moral values. He treats Helen with care and he’s the cause of her joy. Charles represents Jody, a man who mistreats his wife, while Orlando and Helen represent Tea Cake and Janie. Orlando lifts Helen off her feet, much like Tea Cake does to Janie.

 

 

 

 “Why Did I Get Married” is about a woman who gets cheated on by a man who obviously does not care about her. Never did they engage in joyful conversations or happy activities. In the end, the woman who gets cheated on finds a man who is willing to take care of her, a man who will make her happiness last an eternity.